The way and technique of smiling will determine whether it is love making smile or flirting smile or morbid smile. Love making smile is expressive of love, affection, nearness, approachability, connectedness, openness, fidelity, sincerity and sense of belonging and moreover it will stay for longer time on the face while flirting smile is manipulated having treacherous overtones. The morbid smile is purely involuntary and an act of grimacing.
Smiling is the most natural and most general gesture of our human face. What are gestures? Gestures are certain specialized bodily movements of responsiveness. gestures are innate and inborn
1. Smile during love making
2. Smile during flirting
3. Smile during morbid mental disorders.
The smiling process of smiler is so complex and interwoven with complexities that it is not easy to differentiate these three kinds of smiles but the main aim of psychology and psychiatry is to analysis and categories. We will try our best to do so. I can not say to which extent I will succeed in doing so
Let us start with the smiling of love making process. , smiling is an expression denoting amusement pleasure joy and hapliness. A smile is a facial expression formed by flexing the muscles near both ends of the mouth. Laughing is human emotion as weeping and crying. Smiling is lighter or refined laughing in smiling mouth, face and lip muscles area mostly involved. In smiling there is lighter contraction of muscles than in laughing gestures are small but significant part of our body language. The flirt type of girls and woman are master mind in using flirting gestures to their counterparts how to differentiate true love making from flirting? The one way of differentiating is the type of gestures and the way that are used or transmitted. The flirting gestures are mostly motivational and intentional the flirting gestures have very tantalizing effect on the opposite sex and he gets aroused and excited in no time .once this tantalizing effect is produced on the body of the other person the flirter many be man or woman will start withdrawal gestures after that usually. She will never go forward because that is not her destination or motive. Flirting is type of hysteria some girls and guys are predisposed to flirting and these become master of this art in no time. It is innate and inborn as hysteria is innate and inborn Smiling is a process that is understood by everyone despite, education, culture, race, or religion or country. Smiling is a means of communicating emotions throughout the world. The universality of this emotion is well established. In the course of conversations with mental disorder patients,
Sexual overtones in smiling
. Smiling is not pure emotion like love and hatred. It is composite of many varied and contrasting emotions. Smiling signaling system might have evolved from the basic need of conveying different pieces of information from different forms and angles. One of the prominent needs must have been advertising the sexual interests of both sexes. Female smiling has been attraction centre for men from centuries. Female smiling is very appealing and tantalizing to men. Smiling increases the physical attraction and connectedness of bodies. Some smiles have sex appeal for men. Even
Smiling and flirting
Flirting is an art of deep interest for the adolescents and teenagers. Smiling is a most effective tool of flirting. Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive, fascinating and approachable is to send the encoded messages of smile. People know by instinct how to decipher/ decode them. In most cases people decipher these messages instantly and send the return messages by smiling.
Smile is the universal and international sign of love making, friendship and warmth.
Suppose a guy and young girl lock their eyes and gaze with smile four or five times a day as if something is compelling to do so. Than it is sure sign to go ahead. One has received clear signal that the party is interested in you. Make a move and start a conversation for go heading. If one party fails to rise upto occasion the gap will be filled by someone else. The woman mostly uses two facial organs the most confidently while flirting. These are calculated but subconscious movement of eyes and lips. Men and woman both feel attracted and fascinated by red, moist and rounded lips because these are symbols of sex youth and fertility .sensuousness is most marked in lips. Kissing the lips is part and parcel of foreplay of couples. Woman intentionally uses the red lip stick especially the flirting type woman .The red color of lips adds to the beauty of face and makes the smile more visible and color of teeth brighter and white by contrast. The woman repeatedly trying to lick her lips and occasionally biting her lower lip during course of conversation; than it is more than sure that she is certainly trying her seducing and flirting arts with you. Licking of lips and biting of lips is extremely flirting technique that usually is adopted by trained type of flirting woman by trying to hypnotize her prey.
Grimacing
In some neurotic constitutions you will see a peculiar type of smile on their face this type of smile is nervous in origin and it is involuntarily produced during their grimacing of faces.Grimacing is an involuntary act of face making. If you observe keenly, you will see, some friends of yours are in the habit of constantly grimacing their lips. Lip grimacing is very common in nervous people.. You will see people raising their lips from corners repeatedly and unconsciously. I have observed that many patients suffering from different kinds of mental disorder express a peculiar kind of smile one their faces. There is only a little movement of their lips. And it is very transitory in nature and it fades in no moment. When I asked these patients, “what is the matter you are so smiling “. All of them said negatively that they did not know that they ever smiled. This is important piece of information shared by these patients. This is totally involuntary gesture entirely devoid of the will of the patients. Patients are not conscious of it in the least. It is not under their conscious control. Neither there is any outside stimuli to generate this smiling. Even when patients are suffering from severe kind of depression and anxiety, I have seen this smile playing on their faces .this kind of neurotic smile is reminiscent of the disorder of their nervous system. These may be rudimentary or precursory signs of Parkinsonism.